A birth plan is your way of expressing your preferences and priorities for the sort of birth you would like. By writing down what you want to happen, and what you’d ideally hope to avoid, you can communicate your thoughts and wishes to me and the team who will care for you and help you deliver your baby.
Why do I need a plan?
Like most pregnancy healthcare professionals, I ask expectant mums to produce a birth plan. Not because I don’t know what to do, or because I will ever do anything other than what is best for mum and baby, it’s simply because I want to actively involve the mother in the decision-making process. A plan isn’t compulsory, so you can go with the flow if you prefer - but if you have specific views about what you want, or don’t want, during labour, it really helps if the people looking after you know what these things are.
What is it all about?
When it comes to birth, there’s an awful lot to consider. This is something I work through with every mother I care for - together we will prepare and perfect your plan. I’ll go into more detail later, but here’s a handy checklist, to help you cover the most important questions.
Birth plan checklist:
- Who do I want as my birth partner?
- Where do I want to deliver my baby?
- How do I want to deliver my baby?
- What pain relief would I prefer?
- Do I want my baby delivered straight onto my body or cleaned and wrapped first?
- If my labour doesn’t progress, what intervention would I prefer?
- Am I happy for drugs to be used to speed up my labour?
- What would I prefer if my labour has to be induced?
- What are my feelings about instrumental deliveries?
- What are my feelings about Caesarean sections?
- What do I think about episiotomies?
- Do I want an injection to be given to speed up the delivery of the placenta in the third stage?
- Do I want my baby to be given an injection of vitamin K after the birth to prevent bleeding problems?
- How am I planning to feed my baby?
I’m now going to emphasise something I say to every mother I care for: it’s important to remember that a birth plan is a guide and not a guarantee. What everyone wants most is a healthy baby and a healthy mum. If something happens to threaten either you or your baby, plans will have to be changed. I think it is helpful to think of this as revising your birth plan, even if you have to do it quickly.
"I did have a loose birth plan, but it was the opposite of what happened. I was keen for a vaginal birth and not a Caesarean but was happy to have interventions if necessary for the safety of the baby."— Andrea, London
You need to trust the person attending your delivery - and that trust is exactly what our appointments together are for. If circumstances change on the day, you need to know I'm doing the right thing for you and your baby. It’s also important to have a partner with you, whom you trust completely and who can understand what’s going on when you may be in pain and under stress. That person has to be prepared to help change the birth plan in your place, if necessary.
"We discussed our wishes for the birth with our midwife in advance. I wanted a calm natural birth with as few drugs as possible and prepared for birth using a hypnobirthing CD. In the end, I ended up being induced five days before the due date due to poor fetal growth."— Laurie, London
Researching your birth plan
When you’re putting together your birth plan, it’s important to find out as much about your birth options as possible. By gathering information from a variety of different sources, you can start to compose a picture of the sort of birth you would like to experience.
Ask the experts
At your antenatal appointments with me, we'll have plenty of time to talk through your options. I know that antenatal appointments can sometimes be hectic and a little overwhelming, so if you have specific questions, it can help to write them down so your mind doesn’t go blank at the critical moment.
Get out and about
Wherever you're considering giving birth, visiting in person helps you get a feel for the environment and ethos. Mothers under my care deliver at The Portland Hospital, and I always suggest arranging a tour with your partner before the big day - it takes a lot of the unknown out of labour when you already know where you'll be walking in.
Online knowledge
There’s a huge amount of information available online, some is fantastic and some is frankly dangerous and it can be difficult to tell the safe from the suspect - you are more than welcome to bring anything you find to your appointments with me, I'm always happy to help.
Been there, done that
Personal experiences and recommendations can be incredibly useful, and can really help you picture and understand the whole incredible process of childbirth. Chat to friends and family members who have been through birth or have played an active role in supporting a partner as they can tell you about the pros and cons of the choices they made. Many of the women I care for have come to me after a recommendation from a friend whose baby I delivered.
Lessons and learning
Sign up for antenatal classes. They’re a great opportunity to meet new people, exchange tips and learn about the nitty-gritty of labour. Talk to me about any groups running in your area.
"My ‘plan’ was to have as natural a birth as possible. I like ‘plans’, I like to feel in control. After researching other people’s birthing stories and discussing the topic openly with family and friends I felt prepared. I had booked the birthing pool at the hospital and was determined that everything would go as envisaged. I was that expectant mother with her hospital bag prepared by my front door weeks before my due date.— Hayley, Blackpool
I woke on the 14th April at my usual time of approximately 8am. I felt terrible pains and at 37 weeks I excitedly rang my sister who, along with my husband, was to be my birthing partner. Once at the hospital I was pleased that I had involved her as she proved to be a fantastic support.
I soon regretted that I had opted against the pain relief offered. By the time I realised I wanted to suppress the pain, which had become almost unbearable, it was too late. I was offered the water birth pool but I couldn’t imagine anything worse; I wanted my baby out!"
Team talk
You, your birth partner and I are a team, so chat to your partner about the type of labour and birth you would like, how they envisage their role and any worries they may have. As you’re researching, scribble down any ideas that catch your eye as well as anything that doesn’t appeal. Don’t worry about crafting the perfect plan straight away. At the beginning it’s more about collecting, sorting and collating the mountain of available information. You can edit and tidy things up later on.
Questions to consider
1. Where do I want to give birth?
You have a choice about where to have your baby. When considering this question, you should think about your health, your medical history, your pregnancy so far and the options available to you - midwife-led units, hospital, home or a private unit are all possibilities. For the mothers I care for, delivery is at The Portland Hospital, and we'll talk through whether that's the right fit for you and your pregnancy at your first appointment. Wherever you're leaning, I'd encourage you to visit the potential places so you can weigh up the good and bad bits and come to the right decision for you and your baby.
2. Who do I want as my birth partner?
Most women like to have someone to support them during labour and childbirth. Many choose the father of the child, but that’s not the only option. Anyone who gives you confidence can help. Friends, relatives or professionals like doulas (women whose job is to support another woman during the late stages of pregnancy, through childbirth and into the early days of motherhood) are all valid alternatives, or you may want to go it alone. It’s about choosing what makes you most relaxed and comfortable.
3. Is there any special equipment I would like to try?
Birthing balls, beanbags, floor mats, birthing pools, TENS machines, soft music and aromatherapy oils can be used to help make the birthing process more personal and more bearable. Think about what you would like to try, and check whether it’s available in the place you’re planning to give birth. If not, make sure you buy or hire the equipment early so it’s ready and waiting on the big day.
4. Do I have any particular preferences for the birth?
Some hospital or birthing units have special facilities available. These can include birthing pools, dedicated labour/ delivery/recovery/postnatal rooms where you can stay in the same room throughout your stay and postnatal amenity side rooms that you can book for an overnight stay. We can talk through options available at The Portland Hospital during our appointments together.
5. How would I prefer to be monitored?
Every baby is monitored throughout labour to make sure they are healthy and well. There are different ways of checking the baby’s heartbeat to make sure there are no signs of distress. If everything is progressing well, the heart-beat may be checked every quarter of an hour or so with a Doppler device, or continually by a belt strapped around your waist. You can express a preference between these two options. However, problems, an epidural, a drip to strengthen contractions or any sign that your baby may be struggling can mean that continuous monitoring of your baby’s heart using a clip attached to their scalp is necessary. In childbirth, safety should be the first consideration.
6. Would I like to move during labour?
Actively moving and participating in the process of labour can help labour progress, increase your feeling of control and boost confidence. However, it may make you a little tired, and sometimes moving around is not possible with standard epidurals.
7. Positions for labour and birth
The positions you adopt in labour can make a big difference to how it progresses. So experiment with positions like kneeling on all fours or leaning over a beanbag and think about what might work for you. Standing, sitting, squatting, lying, kneeling, doggy position or standing up, you can choose as many positions as you want and change whenever you feel the need.
8. What pain relief would I prefer?
In my experience, many women seem to adopt the ‘suck it and see model’ for pain relief and come into the delivery room with an open mind. You may prefer to try some of the less invasive methods of pain relief, like TENS, relaxation exercises and gas and air in the early stages, and then progress onto something stronger, such as an epidural, as and when you need it. Some women feel strongly about avoiding injectable medications, like pethidine, because they want to avoid that out of control and woozy feeling, while others love it. The choice is yours. List any you would consider and make a note of any strong preferences.
9. If my labour doesn’t progress, what intervention would I prefer?
Sometimes labour doesn’t progress as planned and needs a helping hand. This is called augmentation of labour. Your body has its own contraction hormone called oxytocin. If your contractions start to fade, or if they need a boost, you can be given an artificial version of oxytocin called Syntocinon, or your waters could be broken to speed things along. Consider whether you would be happy to have this, or whether you would ideally prefer to wait and see what happens.
10. What are my feelings about instrumental delivery?
Very few women plan to have an assisted delivery, but sometimes things go wrong and babies need a little extra help into the world. You can say whether you have particular feelings about ventouse over forceps delivery and whether you would like a planned episiotomy to prevent tearing. You can also express whether you would like your partner to remain in the room if you need an assisted delivery. If you express a preference, I will try to follow your wishes if possible. However, it is important to try to be adaptable to ensure the safe delivery of your baby. If you are worried, chat through your concerns with me.
11. How do I feel about Caesarean sections?
A Caesarean section is an operation where an I make a small cut in your abdomen and womb and deliver your baby through it. It can be performed as a planned operation or in an emergency. If it is carried out under epidural or spinal anaesthetic, you will be awake for the operation and your partner can stay with you.
12. How do I feel about an episiotomy?
An episiotomy is a small cut made in the perineum during birth. It is done to avoid more extensive tearing, especially involving the structures surrounding the back passage. It may also be performed to help make the delivery of your baby a little easier, especially if you have an assisted delivery or a breech birth.
13. Do I have any preferences about clamping and cutting the cord?
If you’d like your partner to cut the cord or you’d prefer to delay the clamping of the cord, detail it in your plan. If everything goes well, I'll make sure this happens wherever possible.
14. Do I want an injection to be given to speed up the delivery of the placenta in the third stage?
Most hospitals and birth centres recommend an actively managed third stage of labour using an injection of a synthetic version of oxytocin. Research shows that this decreases the risk of losing lots of blood after the birth. However, you can choose to have a natural third stage, if you would prefer less intervention.
15. Do I want my baby delivered straight onto my body, or cleaned and wrapped first?
In the past, babies were often washed, wiped and returned to the mum as a neat little bundle wrapped in a blanket. You may prefer this, as newborn babies can be a little mucky. However, you may prefer immediate skin-to-skin contact to help with bonding and establishing breastfeeding.
16. Do I want my baby to be given an injection of vitamin K after the birth to prevent bleeding problems?
Babies have low levels of vitamin K at birth. For a small number of babies this can put them in danger of life-threatening haemorrhage. Because of this risk, it is recommended that all babies receive vitamin K after birth to protect them. The most effective way of giving this is by a single injection into the muscle of your baby’s leg immediately after birth. An alternative is oral vitamin K, three doses are needed if your baby is breastfed. Two are given in the first week followed by a top-up when they are one-month old. Bottle-fed babies only need two doses of vitamin K during their first week of life. The problem with this is that often doses can be missed in the chaos of the early weeks, which could put your baby at risk. You don’t have to consent to the vitamin K injection - talk to me about your choice.
17. How am I planning to feed my baby?
Whether you’re going to breast or formula feed, it’s important to let me and the midwifery team know your plans so they can help you get things started after the birth.
18. Do I have any special requirements for the birth?
Everyone has different needs and demands during birth. Whether English is not your first language, you have special educational needs, you follow a specific diet or you have religious customs you’d like observed, this is the place to detail your individual needs. It will help me help you to achieve a happy and healthy birth experience.
"I had a great birth plan! Lots of careful thought and preparation in the months leading up to the birth. I had candles, oils, yoga balls and numerous different music playlists at the ready. I had my first contraction as I walked through the door of the hospital and was howling within seconds. The midwife asked, ‘Have you thought about pain relief?’ I growled, ‘Give me an epidural!’ And do you know what? It was the best thing. As soon as it was administered I completely relaxed and actually began to enjoy the whole experience. No doubt it was still intense but I was completely coherent and with it when my little man was born. I could still feel the contractions, move my legs and had the urge to push, nor did it slow the labour down! Listen to your body!"— Sarah, Larne
A plan is easier with someone beside you
If there's one thing to take from this chapter, it's that you don't have to figure any of this out alone. Working through your birth plan is one of the first things we do together when you join my care so if you're expecting, or planning to be, get in touch with my secretary, Colette, to arrange an appointment. I'd love to help you prepare for the day you meet your baby.
Frequently Asked Questions
No. A birth plan isn't compulsory, and you can simply go with the flow if you prefer. But if you have specific views about what you want, or don't want, during labour, writing them down really helps the people looking after you know what those things are. I ask every expectant mum I care for to produce one, not because I don't know what to do, but because I want to actively involve you in the decision-making process.
A birth plan is a guide, not a guarantee. What everyone wants most is a healthy baby and a healthy mum, and if something happens to threaten either, plans will have to change. I find it helpful to think of this as revising your birth plan rather than abandoning it - even if it has to be done quickly. That's also why it's important to trust the team attending your delivery, and to have a birth partner who understands your wishes and can help revise the plan on your behalf if you're in pain or under stress.
The key questions cover where you want to give birth, who you want as your birth partner, your preferred pain relief, your feelings about interventions such as induction, instrumental delivery, Caesarean section and episiotomy, preferences around cord clamping, delivery of the placenta, the vitamin K injection, immediate skin-to-skin contact, how you plan to feed your baby, and any special requirements - whether dietary, religious, language-related or otherwise.
Most women like to have someone supporting them during labour, and many choose the father of the child - but that's not the only option. Anyone who gives you confidence can help: friends, relatives, or a professional such as a doula. You may also prefer to go it alone. It's about choosing whatever makes you most relaxed and comfortable.
Gather information from a variety of sources: ask at your antenatal appointments (writing questions down beforehand helps), visit the hospital where you're considering giving birth, talk to friends and family who've been through it, and sign up for antenatal classes. There's plenty of information online too - some fantastic, some frankly dangerous - so bring anything you find to your next appointment and we can separate the safe from the suspect together.
This post is adapted from Dr Duncan's new book, Anything Pregnancy. If you've enjoyed reading it, the full book is available to purchase on Amazon.